...And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord. ~1 Corinthians 7:35-35A few fun tips: Knit. Run. Play basketball.
A more serious tip: Read of Bible. Follow God and keep His commandments. Just because you do this tip does not mean things will suddenly be easier; sometimes it's harder. I am helpless before God; I can do nothing. It's only because of Christ's death that I am holy and perfect in God's sight.
Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to himself. ~Acts 2:38-39