Wife, Mummy, Nurse: Total Family Makeover #Book #Review

24 October 2016

Total Family Makeover #Book #Review

One of my earliest memories is the importance my mother placed on reading the Bible. When we were younger, she was a stay at home mom, but also subbed in various public schools in Iowa. When I woke up in the morning, I often found her sitting in the living room, on the couch, reading her Bible. Reading God's word was so important that it was the first thing she did when she woke up in the morning.

In Total family makeover, Melissa Spoelstra writes about 8 things that parents can be doing now to make disciples at home: spending time in prayer, reading God's Word, growing through mentoring, finding community in the church, serving others, taking time to rest, giving back to God, and sharing your faith. In each chapter, you will find two major sections: modeling and training. Melissa includes Scripture verses throughout this book to help emphasize the importance of the above practices.

My thoughts:

To be honest, I was a little uncertain when I signed up to receive this book. When I see a book that has a title that includes "8 practical steps to making disciples at home", I automatically become more hesitant to read it. I wondered, "Will she talk about God's grace and plan in her book? Or will she place all the responsibility on the parents?"

I loved how Melissa opened up the book by writing that our children are not our report cards. She wrote, when we use our children's behavior as our parenting measure rod, we: pass judgment on others when their children are not behaving like they should, going back and forth between pride and shame based on our children's behavior, and envying friends when we read (or hear) about their children's achievement.

In every single section, I was convicted of at least one or two things. For example, in chapter 1-spending time in prayer, Melissa wrote that we are to pray in faith and that nothing is too small for God. Last week when my daughter slammed her finger in the car door, I stupidly told her, "Your nail will probably fall off." She immediately started crying and said, "I don't want my nail to fall off. What if it doesn't grow back? Can we pray that my nail will stay?" I started laughing (to myself) and thought, "Silly girl. This is not that important." But to her, it was important. There was nothing wrong in her request, and I should have been more sympathetic to her plight. 

The good news is, I enjoyed reading this book. My above fears were unsubstantiated. There were many times Melissa wrote and reminded us to be patient, that God's timing is not our timing, and that we are to trust in God.

Check and see what others thought of this book here. What's your favorite Christian parenting book?
I was sent this book for the purpose of review. All opinions are my own, and I was not compensated in any way.

1 comment:

  1. This sounds like a fabulous book for parents. It also sounds like there is a lot of great advice that all parents, regardless of faith, can use and follow!